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Kunyaza cyabaye ikibazo eternelle' buri muntu abaza uko banyaza nk'aho ari byo 'holy grail' yo guswera. N'abazungu ubu basigaye bigishwa am...
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2010-08-18T10:22:00.000-07:00

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Byose ku Kunyaza

2009-12-01T21:36:00.000-08:00

Mbese abagore bose baranyara

2009-03-29T13:39:00.000-07:00

Kunyaza cyabaye ikibazo eternelle' buri muntu abaza uko banyaza nk'aho ari byo 'holy grail' yo guswera. N'abazungu ubu basigaye bigishwa amasomo yo kunyaza n'abadocteur b'abanyarwanda nka NSEKUYE BIZIMANA na Gaspard Musabyimana. Ubu ngo byaragaragaye ko abazungu batazi guswera. Kuko benshi mu bagore b'abazungu ntibazi gusohora icyo ari cyo!!Ni yo mpamvu ubu ushatse kunyaza muri Google utagwa gusa kuri site z'ikinyarwanda cyangwa ikirundi ahubwo sites mu giportugais,allemand,francais n'izindi. Abahinde ubu nibo bagezweho mu kwigisha guswera na za Kamasuthra zabo, ariko ziragoye ni nka Bibiliya. Ubu kunyaza kw'abanyarwanda n'abarundi ni ko kugezwweho. Ni byiza. Aho kugira ngo tuzamenywe gusa kubera ibibazo tugira reka tumenywe nk'abazi gukora ibyºurukundo.

mu-Bonjour?Nyuma yo kubona Site yanyu kuri internet byaranshimishije cyane none nifuje gusobanuza ibi bikurikira; Hari abantu bavuga ko hari Abagore banyara na batanyara ese nibyo?niba aribyo se byaba biterwa ni iki/mushobora se kumbyira uko banyaza?
Murakoze.

bangambiki-Komera . Abagore benshi bashobora kunyara kutanyara akenshi biterwa n'umugabo uba utazi kunyaza. Nyamara kunyaza ntibigoye impamvu abenshi batabikora ni uko batazi akamaro ka rugongo y'umugore bakumva ko kujombagura imboro mu gituba ariko guswera. Rugongo ni ingenzi mu kunyaza kanbdi gushimisha umugore utageze kuri rugongo biragora kuko ariho hirunze imyakura ijyanye n'igitsina. Kunyaza rero ntibigoye, ubona umugore amaze gushyukwa neza ukazunguza imboro kuri rugongo wihuta. Gusa ibyo ntibihagije ugomba kureba etat umugore arimo kandi akaba yashyutswe cyane ikindi icyangombwa ni urukundo no kuba umugore cyangwa umukobwa akwishimiye cyane. Iyo bimeze gutyo ukubita imboro kuri rugongo zigatungereza.

IBIBAZO KU KUNYAZA

2009-03-29T04:22:00.000-07:00

IBIBAZO KU KUNYAZA

1.KUKI ABAGORE BATANYARA KIMWE

Kuki abagore bose batanyara kimwe?

Bangambiki:

Abagore ntibanyara kimwe kuko abagore batandukanye nk'uko abantu muri rusange batandukanye. Kunyara k'umugore biterwa n'ibintu byinshi:

-kuba yarakunnye akagwiza birafasha
-imirire ye
-umugabo uzi guswera akanyaza
-kuba umugore afite umutekano n'amahoro mu rugo kandi akundanye n'umugabo we. Ntibyoroshye kunyaza umugore urakaye cyangwa uhorana intimba
-rugongo:guswera ni rugongo, kunyaza ni rugongo.
-kunyaza ni ukubyimenyereza: niba umugore atanyaye uyu munsi ntibivuga ko adashobora kunyara
-hanyara umutima cyangwa se ubwonko, umugore utakwishimiye cyangw audafitanye gahunda nawe ntibyoroshye ko wapfa kumunyaza, wakunguta hagacika rugongo cyangwa imboro ikavunikani urwenya ariko rurimo ukuri....

2.MBESE KUNYAZA BIRABABAZA

KAREMERA Jean Claude: Kuki abagore cg abakobwa bo mu bindi bihugu nka Zimbabwe iyo uri kubaswera ugashaka kunyaza ubona batabikunze kandi baba barakunnye byaba bibabaza umukobwa iyo bamunyaza?

La toute: Kunyaza kabisa ntibibabaza, keretse k'ubw'umuco cyangwa idini barababwiye ko ari umwanda.

Bangambiki:Kunyaza ntibibabaza iyo bikozwe neza. Ugomba kunyaza umugore amaze gushyukwa neza kandi amaze gushaka cyane guhuza igitsina ni bwo rugongo iba yakomeye yiteguye.

3.MBESE UMUGORE CYANGWA UMUKOBWA ASHOBORA KWINYAZA?

Nema: Ariko,umugore cyangwa umukobwa ashobora kwinyaza mu gihe yikinisha?

La toute: Kwinyaza wikinisha birashoboka ariko bisaba gutekereza uwo mubikorana cyangwa muherukanye! Zirameneka ariko ntizishirayo! ku barwara nk'umutwe na bas ventre biroroshya!

bangambiki:erega kwinyaza ni ko kwikinisha kw'abagore ariko byagusaba ubuhanga n'akamenyero nk'uko Latoute abivuze. Birashimisha birumvikana ariko se ni iki cyaruta imboro y'umugabo kuri rugongo....

cuga: Kwinyaza ntabwo njye mbyemera cyane cyane ko haba hari abagabo baba babuze abo banyaza. Numva ko mu gihe nta wawe ufite uhoraho washaka ukumara ibibazo aho kwinyaza.

bangambiki:ariko ibyo dukora byose tugomba gucungana nuko hanze aha hari cya cyorezo!

4.MBESE UMUGABO USIRAMUYE ASHOBORA KUNYAZA?

SEKUTURE
Mbese umugabo usiramuye ashobora kunyaza,ikindi wabwirwa ni iki ko umugore arangije?

IGISUBIZO

Bangambiki:
SEKUTURE umugabo usiramuye aranyaza ivumbi rigatumuka!Iyo umgore arangije arisimbiza cyane akakwiyegereza ariko iyo ntacyo muhishanya akubwira ko arangije ushobora no kumubaza kugira ngo urusheho kumushimisha. Ku bamenyereye guswera ntibigoye kumenya ko umugore yarangije cyangwa ko arimo kurangiza, wumva atangiye guhumeka cyane no gusohora amajwi ya hatari, ubwo mu gitsina hariyegeranya cyane ukumva igituba kirimo kubyiga imboro ikabura aho ikwirwa ahubwo utabimenyereye wagira ngo mu Igituba hagiye guturikiramo bombe....ibyo byose ariko ni ku mukunzi mumenyeranye utaguhisha naho ubundi abagore ni abahatari ashobora kwikora ibyo byose akakubwira ko yarangije kandi atarangije ibyo biterwa ni uko
-aba arimo kubabara nyuma yuko mukora amaturu menshi
-arwaye arushye yanze kukwima ariko akaba nta mbaraga na appetit ihagije ku buryo yarangije
-kuba atagukunda, byose ku bagore ni urukundo, hari ubwo yanga kubikwereka akaguha ariko kurangiza bikamubera ingorane agapfa kukubeshya ko yarangije...

5.MBESE UMUNTU ASHOBORA KUNYAZA UMUKOBWA VIERGE?

ben: umuntu ashobora kunyaza umukobwa wari VIERGE?

ben: uzansubize niba umuntu uswewe bwa mbere ako kanya yanyara niyo yaba yarakunnye,umbwire ,n'ubwa kangahe (ni ku nshuro ya kangahe yanyara mubikoze),nkeneye kubimenya

IGISUBIZO

Mwami: Ben, gukuna ntibivuze kunyara, kandi kunyara ntibivuze ko ugomba kuba warakunnye, gusa biruzuzanya.Ntibigira kandi igihe runaka, ni process kandi biba mu bihe bitandukanye bitewe n'imiterere ya buri muntu. Ku bakobwa rero bakiri vierge(isugi), yenda ububobere bwabo buratandukanye, bamwe bafite bwinshi, abandi nta namba, ariko kunyara kwabo hagire utwunganira, njye ntawe ndumva

INKURU BISA

1.Kunyaza-Byose ku Kunyaza
2.Dore Uko Banyaza!

KUNYAZA:POSITIONS ZO GUSWERA UNYAZA

2009-03-26T07:04:00.001-07:00

KUNYAZA:GUSWERA UMUGORE AKANYARA.KUNYAZA NI UBURYO BURYOHA BWO GUSWERA,BUSHIMISHA UMUGORE N'UMUGABO

I.KUNYAZA:POSITIONS ZO GUSWERA UNYAZA

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU BITSITSINO

Umwicaza ku butsitsino maze amaguru akayarenza hejuru y'ibibero byawe agafata hasi yishingikirije ibiganze bye maze ukamuswera ukamunyaza yajya gusohora ukamufata mu mugongo kugira ngo atisimbiza kubera uburyohe bwinshi akavunika.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU NTEBE

N'uburyo bwiza cyane bwo kunyaza kuko ntawe buvuna kandi wicara ku ntebe y'urukiko n'umugore bikaba uko mukegerana maze amaguru yanyu agasobekerana aye akayahagarika ku tubaho ku ruhande bigatuma igituba cye cyiza imbere cyane noneho ukamunyaza. Ubu buryo bwo guswera ntibuvuna. Bifasha umugongo kutaruha kandi akanyara neza kuko umugongo urambuye.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA UHAGAZE

Ni uburyo bwo guswera buryoha nabwo. Munyuranya amaguru maze ukamutazura agasa nuteye intambwe, ukuguru kumwe ku ntebe,ku gitanda,cyangwa se ikindi kintu kigiye hejuru ho gatoya ukundi hasi; ugafata umutwe w’imboro ukajya uwukomanga kuri rugongo maze rugongo igashibura ibinyare ariko yuhagira umugabo umubiri wepfo wose. Ubu buryo bwo guswera unyaza bukunze gukoreshwa igihe abantu badafite umwanya n'aho kubikorera heza ariko bamwe bagahitamo kutabihomba bakabikorera ahantu nko mu bikoni,mu iduka,mu ishuri,ku modoka, muri biro n'ahandi bitashoboka ko baryama .Kuko abantu icyo gihe basohorera hasi bisaba kongera guhita utunganya aho mwabikoreye.

II.UBURYO BWO GUSWERA UNYAZA

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA N'URUTOKI

Iyo umugore ashyutswe umuswera ufashe umutwe w'imboro maze ukayikomanga kuri rugongo ugacumita nka rimwe mu masegonda 100 ukamushimisha inkonji wazamura imboro igakora hagati yimishino maze umugore akarekura amazi wamanura nanone imboro igakusha imishino maze hakavubuka ibinyare.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUNYATIRIZA

Ni uburyo buryohera abagore ukubita imboro hagati y'imishino yombi maze ukajya uzamura umanura icyo gihe umugore aritsa ahumeka ukabona ko aryohewe,ubikora nk'imashini ntumutekereze kugera aho amisha ibikari bishyushye inshuro zose ushaka.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUTSIBURA

Uswera ufashe imboro ukayitsibagura kuri rugongo uyikoza ku mutwe wayo maze ugatsibura gahoro ku mishino nk'uko baca umugani mu kinyarwanda ngo'umushishi w'umushino ntushira inogonra' maze agasoko kari hagati y'imishino kagatungereza maze ukungikanya akanyara .

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKUNGUTA

Ni uburyo bumara umugore ishwira.Imboro uyinjiza mu gituba ugafata umutwe wayo maze ugakunguta ujyana mu mpande zose z'igituba hepfo no haruguru mu mpande no mu muzenguruko wacyo. Abagore bafite imbyaro nyinshi barabikunda, bamena amavangingo menshi avanze n'urukonda.
Umugore ukungutwa cyane ubona ahorana umwera ariko anezerewe ku buryo iyo atabibona arwara za rubagimpande ndetse no mu nda.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMA

Ufata imboro ishyutswe ukayinjiza mu marebe y'igituba maze ugafata imishino ukayikurura usa n'uyipima ku mboro maze ukayifatana nimboro maze ukazunguza umanura uzamura utambitse ariko ukoza imboro kuri Rugongo. Imishino ihita ireta nk'amabere maze ikivuruganya.
Ugomba kwitonda kuko umushino ushobora gucika cyagwa ugakomereka mu gihe ugize cyane UTARIMO GUCUNGA.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUJABAGIRA

Ufata isonga y'ururimi ukayipima hagati y'imishino na rugongo maze ukajabagira nk'imbwa inywa amata yatangira kunyara ugapfundikiza isonga mu kenge kazana amavangingo maze agasa nuhejeje umwuka ukarekura maze agasa n'aho acitse amaferi.
Ugomba kwirinda kumira amavangingo kandi bikorerwa umuntu wapimishije ko adafite imiteziCYANGWA IZINDI NDWARA ZANDURIRA MU MYANYA NDANGABITSINA kuko ushobora kuyandura mu kanwa, uko igituba kinuka afite imitezi ni nako mu kanwa hawe hanuka/wabigirira umugore wawe gusa nabwo uzi neza ko adasambana.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMISHA

Umukobwa ahenesha undi cyangwa umuhungu udashaka guswera akoresheje imboro maze agashyira urutoki mu kibuno kugeza aho ruhenengeye maze wakunva asa n'uniha ugasakuma imishino ugasa nuyikama ugarura mu muraru we maze buri uko usesetse urutoki ugakama imishino ye, ahita asuka amazi agataka akarangiza.
Icyitonderwa: ushobora gukomeretsa inyama zo mu nda iyo ufite inzara ndende.

MBESE UMUMUGORE WANJYE/INSHUTI YANJYE Y'UMUKOBWA BASHOBORA KUNYARA?

2009-03-26T07:03:00.001-07:00

Mbere na mbere wowe muhungu cyangwa mugabo banza ubwawe wikure mu mutwe ko atanyara. Wemere ko anyara kandi ko niba atanyara azanyara nimumara kubimenyera no kubigerageza inshuro nyinshi kandi wige kunyaza nk'uko nabikunyuriyemo haruguru kuko umugore ntapfa kunyara aranyazwa. Hari uburyo bubiri bwo guswera unyaza.

1.GUSWERA UNYAZA UKORESHEJE IMBORO

Ubu buryo bwo kunyaza ushobora kubukoresha mu guswera iyo utajya usohora vuba.Ufata umutwa w'imboro ukawukunguta kuri rugongo(banayita agashino,agashyimbo)kugeza igihe haziye inkari zishyushye.

2.GUSWERA UNYAZA UKORESHEJE URUTOKI.

Kunyaza ukoresha musumba zose UGAKINISHA RUGONGO uzamura umanura vuba vuba ubundi akanyara.
Gusa gukoresha urutoki biraryoha cyane kuko rwo rudahusha ku buryo uswerwa agera aho yibagirwa imboro wayizana akayisunika yishakira urutoki.

ICYITONDERWA

Guswera no kunyaza ntabwo byoroshye nko kubivuga mu rurimi.Ni ngombwa kumenya kubikora kugira ngo ushimishanye n'uwo mubikorana,iyo bidashobotse ashobora kujya kubihiga aho akeka ko yabibona, umubano ukaba wakwangirika kubera ubuswa.Mbere yo guswera no kunyaza mugomba kubanza mukitegura ,mukaganira neza,mugakuraho inzitizi izo ari zo zose zatuma mudakundana cyane ku buryo mwimariranamo kuko 'ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu gituba'.Mugabo ugomba kwereka umugore ko umukunda,ukamushimashima,ukamusoma,ushobora no kumubwira mbere y'igihe ko wifuza imibonano umubiri we ukaba witegura kukwakira.Uswerwa nawe akerekana ko ashimishijwe n'ibyo arimo,akanyongera umugabo,akamumwenyurira,ukamukorakora.Iyo guswerana byateguwe neza ,nta kabuza biraryoha kuko'ushaka umushaka asanga umweko woroshye'.Naho ubundi nugenda ugafata umugore wawe cyangwa inshuti yawe y'umukobwa ugahita ugarika ugatangira guhonda imboro kuri rugongo utamuteguje ngo ni uko wabisomye ushobora kumugirira nabi kutabishakaga.Umubiri ufite uko witwara tugomba kubyubaha.Nkwifurije guswera no kunyaza byiza.

ITANGAZO:guswera no kunyaza ni byiza ariko uramenye uwmu bikorana ni nde.SIDA IRICA.Agapfa kaburiwe n'impongo!

UTUGENURANO TUJYANYE N'IBYO UMAZE GUSOMA

Umukunnyi aruhira umuswezi.
Inyamibwa y' imboro ni ishyutwe.
Karabaye ntiyendwa.
Ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu gituba.
Umushishi w'umushino ntushira inogonora
Uruhahirwa na babiri iyo rutazanye ibinyoro ruzana mburugu(urabe wumva mutima muke wo mu rutiba!)
Ushaka umushaka asanga umweko woroshye
Ushaka ntababarira imisundi

UMWAMBARO W’ABAKOBWA-GUKUNA

2009-03-26T07:02:00.000-07:00

UMWAMBARO W’ABAKOBWA
par Latoute

Ikintu cyose kirimbishijwe kigaragara neza ko gifite ubwiza, niyo mpamvu umukobwa agomba gutegura ejo hazaza. Ibyo bigaragarira mu isuku iranga aho aba, uko ari, n’uko ateye.

Isuku mu rugo: Ni ngombwa ko tugira amagara mazima niba dushaka ubuzima burambye: ibyo ni ihame. Ingo nyinshi zisenyuka kubera ko n’umugore aba yagaragaje intege nke mu kugira isuku. Iyo byatangiye gucumbagira hirya iyo mu cyumba, akenshi umugore acika intege n’ibyo yakoraga ugasanga atangiye kubiha agaciro gacye cyangwa se ka ntako. Ibijyanye n’iki gice bidatinzweho, umukobwa cyangwa umugore azi inshingano ze kugira ngo urugo rwe rugere ahashimisha buri wese kuburyo bw’intangarugero.

Isuku ku mubiri: umubiri w’umuntu ukenera isuku ya ngombwa kugirango biwufashe byaba kuwambika, gukaraba, kwiyuhagira, n’ibindi. Mu gihe cyo gukaraba ni ngombwa kwita no gutinda cyane ahashobora kubangamira abandi mu gihe hatasukuwe neza: amenyo, mu maha, igitsina….

Isuku y’igitsina: iyi suku irakenewe kuko ni intangiriro yo kugira umunezero mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina, ntacyo byaba bimaze urya neza, ukaryama aheza, ukambara ukaberwa ariko watambuka ukagira ngo haboreye imbeba! Hari amasabune yifashishwa ushobora no kubaza farmacien, atangiza mu gitsina, mu gihe ukaraba rero ni ngombwa kuhatinda ukahasukura kugirango wikorere isuku kandi witegure na we ubwawe mu kwakira imibonano mpuzabitsina (ku bashakanye), kuko umurimo uhakorerwa ni ingenzi mu kubaka ingo zigakomera, ntabwo ugomba gupfobywa cyangwa ngo usuzugurwe !

Gukuna: Ni umuhango wa gikobwa ugamije kumutegura kuba umugore ubereye umugabo, hari n’ababishyira mu rwenya ngo :”nyiranaka yaryoshya inzoga”, utangira umukobwa ari umwangavu w’imyaka 13-18 kuko umubiri uba utarakomera atarajya mu mihango ya gikobwa. Ariko! Uko amajyambere yihutana n’imirire myiza usanga hari abana bajya mu mihango bafite imyaka 9-10, byaba byiza ba nyina wabo na ba nyirasenge, bakuru babo ndetse na (ba nyina); mvuze ndetse naba nyina kuko imiryango myinshi usanga ba nyina b’abakobwa batinya kubibaganiriza , bagahitamo kubateza abo bavuzwe hejuru, ubwo uwo bishobokeye nyine na nyina yabimuganiriza!

Mu gihe cyo ha mbere uwo muhango wakundaga kubera mu gasozi nko mu gashyamba abakobwa bitwaje kujya guca imyeyo” nkeka ko ari naho havuye iyo mvugo”, ko uwakunnye byitwa ko yaciye imyeyo, bakitwaza kujya guca ubwatsi, gutashya inkwi, kujya mu rubohero, n’ibindi….

Amajyambere arihuta cyane ku buryo bitakiri ngombwa kwikora muri équipe ngo mugiye guca imyeyo; na cyane ko hateye iya ruzungu, ngo ugiye gutashya, kandi mukoresha cuisinnière, upfa kuba ufite ibikunisho byawe, wanabikorera mu rugo mu cyumba uraramo cyangwa n’ahandi uba warateguriye icyo gikorwa.

Ni umuhango ugomba kubahwa ukanubahirizwa; si byiza ko buri wese amenya icyo uhugiyeho, icya ngombwa ni uko uba witegurira ibyishimo n’umunezero birambye.

Ibikunisho:

* intobo z’ibitoborwa
* amavuta y’inka (niyo yaba adakuze)
* akatsi bita gutwi kumwe
* agati bita umukonora (utubabi twako),…..

Uko bikoreshwa: ufata intobo z’ibitoborwa ukazotsa (uzivumbika mu gicaniro), zamara gushya ugakuramo ubuhwa bwazo ukavanga n’amavuta y’inka mu kantu gafite isuku (niyo wakwifashisha icupa ryashizemo amavuta ya gikotori)

Ushobora no gukoresha kimwe muri biriya byatsi bivanze n’amavuta y’inka!

Mu gihe ibyo byatsi cyangwa ibimera bitabashije kuboneka ukoresha amavuta y’inka akuze ukayakoresha mu gitondo kare na nimugoroba abandi bashyizweyo! Ni ngombwa gukorera icyo gice isuku kugirango hatagira indi mpumuro yumvikana mu gihe hari uwo utambutseho!

Uko bakuna: wicaza ikibuno hasi, ugashinga ibirenge ku buryo amavi ashobora kugera ku ntugu zombi, ukanyuza amaboko munsi y’ibibero ufite rwa ruvange rw’ibyo ukunisha cyangwa se amavuta y’inka akuze (iyo ari intangiriro), ukuboko kumwe gukurura umushino biteganye kaba kakiri gato kakagenda gakura uko uhataho ukuna, ukururira rimwe ujyana hasi, mu ntangiriro birababaza ndetse rimwe na rimwe ukumva wabireka, ari nayo mpamvu abakobwa bakunira hamwe barenze umwe kugirango batizanye umurindi. Iyo umaze kugira umushino ufatika, Ugeraho ugakuna utazura umushino mu bugari bwawo kugirango biwuhe forme yo kuba mugari, kugeza ugwije” imyugariro”.

Mu gihe bakuna ari benshi buri wese aba afite ibikunisho bye, cyaraziraga guha undi ku bikunisho wizaniye ngo aba agutwaye imishino ndetse akagutanga no kugwiza bikakuzinga. Cyokora ariko mwashoboraga gufashanya babiri babiri umwe agakuna mugenzi we ku mpungenge zo gutinya kwibabaza!

Igipimo cy’umushino

Iyo ukurura ucunganwa no kutarenza urugingo rwa kabiri rwa musumbazose cm 6-7, hari n’abanezezwa no gukuna akarurenza ariko byitwa “gukuna ibiziriko” cyangwa se “imijabamabyi”, ndetse ngo uwakunnye ibiziriko agira umushyukwe cyane ndetse akifuza vuba igitsina mu gihe ari mu minsi y’uburumbuke, gusa hakabaho kwifata kugirango atiyangiriza ubukobwa bwe.

Uwagwije rero ntaba agihangayikishijwe n’ibikoresho, amavuta y’inka gusa arahagije cyane cyane avuye mu mihango kuko umubiri uba waregeranye, akora ibyo bita “kunanura”. Umukobwa cyangwa umugore wakunnye bimutera ishema n’isheja agahora iteka yiteguye kunezeza umugabo mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Bidasobanuye ko utarakunnye bamusenda, bafatanya kurwubaka kandi ntibibabuza kunezererwa icyo gikorwa, akarusho gusa ni uko umugore wakunnye areta vuba kandi akihuta mu kunyara no mu gusohora, bigatuma ndetse bigafasha umugabo we akumva ko atarimo kuruhira ubusa, biramunezeza cyane iyo baharuranye ikivi batangiranye!

Ingaruka zo kudakuna: Aho umukobwa abimenyeye ko hari igikorwa cyamwihishe cyangwa atamenye, bimutera ipfunwe ndetse bikamubabaza cyane, akumva ahari wenda ntacyo bimaze gushaka niba atarakunnye, kuko abandi akenshi bamuca intege bamubwira ko bazamusenda, ngo bazamukubita intosho ishyushye mu maguru, ngo nyirabukwe azarahiramo ivu, n’ibindi by’urucantege, ariko binagaragara ko cyera byakorwaga. Ahora asuherewe rimwe uwo mutwaro akawugereka kuri nyina cyangwa bakuru be bakabaye barabimuganirije, yaba ntabo afite akibaza ati nibe n’abafite ababibakorera (yumvikanisha ko kubura nyina yahombye byinshi; kandi koko), atangira kugerageza bitagishobotse (ngo nyiranaka yibutse ikuna mu irongorwa); nuko aba abikoze mu gihe kitari icyabyo:yakabaye yaragwije ananura,….

Inkurikizi

Umukobwa utarakunnye iyo ashatse umugabo wabimenyeho akanabiganirizwa agasanga umufasha we atagira ashwi, urukundo, ubwuzu n’urugwiro yari amufitiye bitangira kugabanuka, rimwe na rimwe akabimucyurira, icyo gihe bisaba kwihangana no kubiganiraho kugirango yumve ko “urugo rutubakwa n’imishino, uretse ko ngo na none urwayirozwe, umwana warwo avukana itanu”.

Bihumira ku mirari iyo umugabo asanze umugore we atanyara, hari abihangana ntibinamenyekane ariko hari n’undi wumva ko atashatse: twibuke ibituma ingo nyinshi zishobora gusenyuka ko n’ibi birimo, nyamara na none ibyo si intandaro yo gutana kuko muba mwarasezeranye kubana akaramata;

Uko wakwifata mu gihe uwo washimye usanze atanyara

Mwihanganishe wowe mugabo umukorere ibindi bituma munezerwa niba ibyo kunyarirwa mutabikozwa, wimugaya, kuko siwe wabyiteye! Bimwubahire yumve na we akunzwe kandi yizihiye urugo muri rusange, n’umugabo we by’umwihariko.

Azakubera nyina w’abana mutarutwa wizihiye urugo mufatanyije gucunga!!!!

Azagukunda agukundwakaze, akubahire icyo wamwubahiye,

Azagutura ibihozo uhore umushaka, aho uri umwenyure uti ngwino simbi ryandutiye bose!!!

IBIBAZO KU KUNYAZA

2009-03-23T13:54:00.000-07:00

KUNYAZA,IBANGA RYO GUSOHORA KW'ABAGORE

2009-03-23T13:49:00.001-07:00

Soma iyi nkuru mu cyongereza hano

Nsekuye Bizimana arasobanura uburyo bwa karande bwo guhuza igitsina. Abashakashatsi mu by'igitsina bavuga ko 70% by'abagore badashobora gusohora binyuze mu nzira zo gucumitwa mu igituba gusa. Kugira ngo afashe abagore gusohora, Nsekuye Bizimana, arasobanura uburyo bwa karande nyafurika bwo guswera bwitwa "kunyaza". Mu gitabo cye yise Le Secret de l'Amour A l'Africaine, arasobanura uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina bwa karande bukoreshwa muri Afurika yo hagati n'iy'i burasirazuba.

Nsekuye Bizimana yiyumvisha ko Afurika irimo igisubizo cyo gusohora kw'abagore. Uburyo akundamo ihuzabitsina nyafurika byatumye acukumbura uburyo guhuza igitsina bikorwamo mu gihugu cye cy'u Rwanda, i Burundi, uburasirazuba bwa Congo, uburengerazuba bwa Uganda na Tanzania. Umuco wo kunyaza, watugezeho biturutse ku bury abasekuruza bacu bagiye bawuhererekanya mu buryo bwo kubibwirana(kuko nta bitabo byariho ngo byandikwe),ni uburyo bwo guswera bukora umurimo wabwo neza ku buryo umugore ashobora kurangiza inshuro nyinshi mu mubonano umwe kandi akananyara. Nsekuye Bizimana asobanura neza kunyaza akoresheje ibishushanyo n'amafoto mu gituba cye nako igitabo cye Le Secret de l'Amour a l'Africaine, yandikiye mu Budage aho abarizwa ubu, kandi kizaboneka vuba muri Amerika. Nsekuye Bizimana,unahagarariye ikigo gikora ubushakashatsi ku kunyaza, aratekereza ko igitabo cye kizigisha byinshi kunyaza ku isi yose. Abagabo ntibazongera kugira urwitwazo rwo kudashimisha abakunzi babo b'abagore, ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko 70%yabo batajya basohora iyo bacumiswe mu gituba gusa.

Afrik.com:1.Dusobanurire kunyaza icyo ari cyo

Nsekuye Bizimana: Kunyaza ni uburyo gukinisha cyane igituba cy'umugore. Umugabo akubitisha isonga y'imboro ye mu bice by'imbere mu gituba, ashobora kubikora mu buryo buhagaritse(akurikije umusate w'igituba) cyangwa mu buryo butambitse. Umugabo agomba kwibanda kuri rugongo, akajya ayikubitaho,ayikubaho isonga y'imboro yerekeza iburyo n'ibumoso. Kubikora iyo bibabaza umugore, umugore agomba kubanza gukoresha amavuta yoroshya mu gituba cyangwa bakabanza gukinishanya kugeza igituba gitose mu buryo bwa kamere kitegura imboro. Umugabo aramutse anyaje neza umugore agomba gushobora kurangiza mu minota nk'itanu.

Afrik.com:Iminota itanu itanu uzunguza imboro kuri rugongo, ubwo se umugabo ntaruha ukuboko...

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abaswerana bagomba gufatanya. Umugore ashobora kugarama cyane akifungura ku buryo umugabo agera ku bice biryoherwa by'umugore bitamugoye. Ibyo ari byo byose biragiye
kurigata mu gituba kurusha kunyaza,ururimi n'imisaya nabyo biruha vuba.

Afrik.com:Unavuga ko Kunyaza bishobora gushimisha umugore wakebwe rugongo

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mu gukebwa kwinsi kw'abagore, bakeba gusa agace gato ka rugongo, igice cy'imbere ntigikorwaho, n'agaheha ko kunyariramo ntigakorwaho, kandi aho hose hararyoherwa cyane. Ubwo rero abo bagore bashobora kunyazwa. Dushobora gutekereza ko abagore bakebwe badashobora kurangiza. Nyamara naganiriye n'abo bagore bambwira ko banyajwe bigakunda.

Afrik.com: kunyaza ngo bishobora gukorwa n'iyo umugabo yaba agira ibibazo byo gushyukwa...

Nsekuye Bizimana: Abagabo bafite ibibazi bito byo gushyukwa, bashobora gukinisha rugongo n'imboro yabo, kandi mu gihe barimo kubigerageza baboneraho no gushyukwa bakaba bashobora gucumita abagore babo. Abagabo benshi bafite ibibazo byo gushyukwa bambwiye kunyaza byabafashije guhaza abagore babo.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko kunyaza bizakundwa cyane nka gusomana kw'abafaransa(french kiss)

Nsekuye Bizimana:Igihe nari nkiri muto, gusomana kw'abafaransa ntibyari bizwi cyane. Abantu bake bari babizi, ariko ubu abanyafurika benshi barabikora.. Nko mu myaka 100 ishize uburyo bwo gusomana bw'abafaransa bwakorwaga n'abantu bake gusa mu burayi ubwaho. Ibi bivuga ko uburyo bwiza bwo gukora ibintu bushobora gukwira ku isi yose. Mu gihe rero numva ko kunyaza ari uburyo bwiza bwo guhuza igitsina nta mpamvu yatuma ntizera ko buzakundwa n'abantu benshi. Igitabo cyanjye nikimara gusohoka mu rurimi rw'icyongereza umwaka utaha 2009 ndizera ko abantu benshi bazgerageza kunyaza mu gihe abandi bazagenda babwirana inkuru nziza yo kunyaza. Kunyaza ni uburyo bwo guhuza igitsina buzwi kandi bukorwa muri Namibia bwaje bukomotse muri Uganda.

Afrik.com: Uvuga ko amahugurwa yawe yo kunyaza akenshi azamo abanyaburayi. Wasobanura impamvu ibitera?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ntabwo nzi impamvu abanyafurika batitabira aya mahugurwa yo kunyaza, gusa nshobora gukeka. Icyo ntekereza ni uko nkurikije ibyo nabonye mu Budage, abnyafurika ntibajya bitabira amanama n'amahugurwa ya politiki. Uzabasanga mu makiriziya ahubwo. Ibyo ni byo nabonye..Ariko ndakeka ko bizahinduka kuko abantu benshi barimo kugura igitabo cyanjye cyanditse mu gifaransa

Afrik.com: Hari icyo se abaganga b'igitsina bari bavuga nyuma yaho usohoreye igitabo cyawe ku kunyaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Ndacyategereje icyo bazavuga ku kunyaza. Cyane cyane ko nagereranyije inyungu z'uburyo bigisha no kunyaza. Abaganga b'igitsina nta kintu kigaragara bagezeho mu buryo bwo gufasha abagore gusohora, ntekereza ko kunyaza bifasha abagore gusohora kurusha ubundi buryo abaganga b'igitsina bigisha.

Afrik.com: Inzu yandika ibitabo yavuze iki ku gitabo cyawe mbere y'uko ugitangaza?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Byarabashimishije kuko babonaga uburyo bwanjye buzagira akamaro. Inzu yasohoye igitabo cyanjye yasohoye ibitabo byinshi ku gitsina harimo n'ibitabo by'umuganga w'ikirangirire w'umufaransa Gerard Leleu. Mu by'ukuri bazi ibyo bakora.

Afrik.com: Usibye kunyaza, hari ubundi buryo waba uzi bwatuma umugore arangiza bitamugoye?

Nsekuye Bizimana: Mba nkuroga, iyo mbumenya mba narabwanditseho

Afrik.com: Mbese inyandiko zawe zihengamiye ku itezambere ry'umugore?

Nsekuye Bizimana: ntabwo ari mu buryo bw'uburwanashyaka, ni ikibazo nabonye, cy'uko abagore bagomba gushimishwa n'igitsina cyabo. Ndashaka ko abagore basohora igihe barimo guhuza igitsina.

Afrik.com:Urumva ushaka gukora ubushakashatsi bunonosoye ku kunyaza muri Institute for Sexology and Sexual Medicine mu Budage kugira ngo ugaragaze akamaro k'ubu buryo. Amafaranga y'uyu mushinga uzayakura he?

Nsekuye Bizimana:Ubushakashatsi bwitaweho muri iki gihe mu Budage ni indwara z'ibitsina n'ingaruka zo mutwe ziterwa no gufata abana ku ngufu no Gufata Ku Ngufu muri rusange. Ntabwo bazi uburyo bunyuranye bwo guhuza ibitsina. Ariko aha naho bazahagera. Bizatwara igihe mbere y'uko igitabo cyanjye gisobanura neza ibitekerezo byanjye abantu bakabyitaho, ariko ndatekereza ko abafaransa bazahita bagikunda, ndateganya rero kuzabona infashanyo ziturutse mu bafaransa.

Iki kiganiro cyayobowe na Habibou Bangre, cyahinduwe mu Kinyarwanda na H.Bangambiki,Umwanditsi mukuru wa Igituba.org